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Don't throw yourself out on another one's whim. People change, as do intentions, and as a result, consequences. Live for yourself. Love those around you, but realize they've got their own agendas.
-Alex Gaskarth.
When you take, you take the very best of me.
So I start a fight cause I need to feel something and
you do what you want because i'm not what you wanted.
So, you screwed up? You're gonna be okay.
They did a study. They found that women
spend about two years of their lives doing
their hair. And, get this, men don't notice.
Because they spend two years of their lives
staring at breasts.
The smile across her face is real, the glitter
in her eyes is actually there, and that
laugh? No it's not fake for once. Yeah
boy, it's all because of you.
I hope you can't sleep and you dream about it. And
when you dream I hope you can't sleep and you scream
about it. I hope your conscience eats at you and you can't
breathe without me.
Don't promise me forever. Just love me day by day.
No one knows the future. We're young, but
that's okay.
"That's the problem with us. We're both
stubborn asses and always want to get
our way. We both hate to be wrong and love
to be right. But that's the thing about love. No
matter what happens, we always come
back for each other, one more time. "
"I miss you so much.
Your light, Your smile, Your way
And everything about us
Though you're gone, You're still here
In my heart, In my tears
Yeah, you sure left your mark."
"Your eyes are blue like the ocean, and baby,
I'm lost out at sea.
Did the sun just come out or did you smile at me?"
"True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked."
"For me it's always been you, always.
And I've tried to fight it and I've tried to deny it.
But I can't.
You're Undeniable"
-OC
"she rolled over & started into his eyes,
'promise you won't ever forget me again.'
he kissed her forehead & said,
'i never did.'"
"so lets say that theoretically, i really like him,
and theoretically, even though it sounds
moronically cliche and overused, he gives me
butterflies. and just for kicks, lets add that, all
in theory of course, he may be one of the most
wonderful people i have ever met, and
hypothetically, my heart beats ten times
faster when i see him"
"given how we agree life is a miracle we sure do bitch about it a lot."
"So you maintain the status quo. Choose the road already traveled and it doesn't seem that bad. Not as far as flaws go. You're not a drug addict. You're not killing anyone... Except maybe yourself a little. "
“Don't fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things. The saddest summary of a life contains three descriptions: could have, might have, and should have.”
“I've been thinking a lot lately about taking chances
and how it's really just about overcoming your fears.
Because the truth is, every time you take a big risk in your life,
no matter how it ends up, you're always glad you took it.”
I just don't know if I wanna do it anymore,
get close to somebody so they can leave again.
- One Tree Hill
you don't think the way i do you've got your own
point of view. we don't see eye to eye on many things,
even when we try. i find in you what i don't in me. a side
of life i never see so you be you and i'll be me its okay
if we disagree. i'm learning more and more each day
i'm thinking about the things you say, why you do the
things you do and why you are the you that's you. i find in you
what i don't in me
just say what you mean and mean what you say. don’t expect someone to read your mind, and don’t play games with heads or hearts. don’t tell half-truths and expect trust when the full truth comes out. half-truths are no better than lies. don’t be cold to someone you care about.
there will come a day when you'll feel like shit and you'll want to give up on this life and everything else. when that day arrives, save yourself some trouble, and don't do a thing—just take a nap.
the reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be.
i don't know if i want to go down this road again. it's filled with potholes and bumps, it's just not a smooth ride. as far as i can tell it will still lead me to the same place it did before, i'll end up at a dead end road with a broken heart.
success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.
-winston churchill
baby, i just need you here tonight. i'm all caught up, and it seems i'm stuck on you. maybe this is just a phase that i'll get through cause it's true that i do tend to lose my mind sometimes, but i didn't plan on losing you.
I guess I cant really say I know you too well, but since the day I met you, you've meant something big to me.
nothing about us makes sense.
but in my heart, it's the easiest
thing to understand.
I like cute guys. Not necessarily the hottest guy, but the one that's clumsy & crazy & always makes me smile. You know what I mean? Like he might not be Abercrombie potential, but he still has all my attention. No, not in the show-offy type of way, but in the I'm-totally-cool-with-who-I-am kind of way. Like he can smile at me & I know we were meant for this, for us. It would be like, he wouldn't always know what to say & when to say it, but he would want to. Because sometimes caring enough to try really is enough. And for us it would be. He'd be spontaneous, always doing something I would have never expected would make me fall in love. The kind of guy that is so proud to be yours. The kind that has an amazing family that you feel at home with. You know, the kind of guy that is your best friend, but the only person you could ever see yourself with at the same time. He would love me for everything I am, for real, not just say it like everyone else always does. He would mean it & I wouldn't have to think twice to know he was telling the truth. And maybe we'd be exact opposites, but that what would make our relationship great. Working at it. Because without the work, it wouldn't really be worth it.
Oh, every time that i'm around you
Oh, i'm on fire when we touch
Oh, when i hold you boy you know
I can't get close enough
There's a little more to love and life
Then fairy tales and hand me down dreams
She's a wild one
With an angel's face
She's a woman-child
In a state of grace
When she was 3 years old on her daddy's knee
He said you can be anything you want to be
She's a wild one
Runnin' free
And with a broken wing,she still sings.
She keeps an eye on the sky.
With a broken wing, she carries her dreams.
Man,you ought to see her fly
i`m into you, you`re into me. but i can`t let it go so
easily. not till i see whether this could be eternity or
just a week. you know our chemistry is off the chain.
it`s perfect now, but will it change? this ain`t a yes.
this ain’t a no. just do your thing, we`ll see how it goes.
you can't always sit in your corner of the
forest and wait for people to come to you.
you have to go to them sometimes.
[winnie the pooh]
sometimes, smiling doesn't mean
happiness at all. because maybe it's
just a way of saying, "I can manage."
but sometimes, smiling is just a way
of saying, "I'm tired of crying."
Risk more than others think is safe.
Care more than others think is wise.
Dream more than others think is practical
and expect more than others think is possible.
It seems like a million years ago we dated, but it wasn't.
Maybe you’re over it. Maybe it doesn’t mean anything to you anymore.
Maybe it never did, but it meant a lot to me.
You meant a lot to me & you still do.
I guess you're right; I'm afraid.
I'm afraid to put my guard down.
I'm afraid that if you know who I am, you won't feel the same.
And I'm afraid that once my barrier is defeated and I'm comfortable, that you'll walk away.
Everyone says that love hurts.
That’s simply not true.
Loneliness hurts.
Rejection hurts.
Losing someone hurts,
but love does not hurt.
you aren’t going to be her first, her last, or her only. She's loved before, she will love again, but if she loves you now what else matters? She’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if she can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and admits to being human and making mistakes, hold on to her and give her the most you can. She isn’t going to quote poetry, she’s not thinking about you every moment, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you could break. Don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t expect more than she can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when she makes you happy, yell when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had.
you never think that the last time is the last time
you never think there won't be more
you think you have forever, but you don't
greys anatomy
Sometimes it’s easy to feel like you’re the only one in the world who’s struggling, who’s frustrated, or unsatisfied, or barely getting by. But that’s feeling’s a lie. And if you just hold on, just find the courage to face it all for another day and someone, or something, will find you and make it all okay. Because we all need a little help sometimes. Someone to help us hear the music in our world. To remind us that it won’t always be this way. That someone is out there, and that someone will find you -One Tree Hill
we're just afraid, period. our fear is free floating.
we're afraid this isn't the right relationship or we're
afraid it is. we're afraid they won't like us or we're
afraid they will. we're afraid of failure or we're afraid
success. we're afraid of dying young and afraid of
growing old. we're more afraid of life than death
Someone once told me, Every song has an ending Jake, but is that any reason not to enjoy the music?
There is no person in the world who is made to handle every punch that's thrown at them. We aren't made that way. In fact, we're made to get mad, upset, sad, be hurt, stumble and fall. We aren't suppose to be able to handle everything. But that's what makes us stronger in the end, by learning from the things that hurt us the most.
if my heart was a house, you'd be home.
Deciding to get back together with someone is a complicated and difficult decision.
Just remember that the person you are getting back together with is the same person who,
not long before, looked you in your beautiful face, took full stock of you and all your qualities,
and told you that he was no longer in need of your company.
- He's Just Not That Into You
I used to miss you so much, but it never seemed like you missed me, and I guess because of that I stopped missing you.
- One Tree Hill
The saddest kind of sad is the sad that tries not to be sad.
You know, when Sad tries to bite its lip and
not cry and smile and go, “No, I’m happy for you”?
That’s when it’s really sad.
-John Mayer
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And its funny how it`s the simple things in life that mean the most
Not where you live or what you drive or the price tag on your clothes
There`s no dollar sign on a piece of mind this I`ve come to know
You've got so much going for you, going right, But I know at 17 its hard to see past Friday night.
so theres this boy - we argue alot. he makes fun of me because i cant stay on the same subject for more then 5 seconds before i'm on to the next one. he handles me when i'm sad & handles me when i'm mad. i tell him i hate him & he responds with no you dont. yeah -- hes not prince charming but to me he couldnt be more perfect.
there have been a lot of ups & downs, but ultimately at the end of the day, thats what makes you who you are. We all know how to laugh, we all know how to cry, and we all know how to love back. we all know heartache, but the world keeps moving, and we keep moving along with it, and everything we experience helps us realize how beautiful life really is.
as you slide down the banister of life, remember me as the splinter in your ass.
and its because whenever shes around him she smiles and its safe to say she hasnt had this feeling from a boy in quite a while.
"I've learned you can never expect anything from anyone, no matter who it is. The second you expect something from someone, you're setting yourself up for heartbreak."
"End in the end, it doesn't matter how many breaths you take, only how many moments took your breath away. "
"When you reach into a box of Lucky Charms, you know there's a prize in the Bottom. When you miss the King of the World scene in Titanic, you can rewind it. You can fast forward through when Simba's dad dies in the Lion King. But in life, if you miss something, you miss it. You can't go back. Sometimes you take all the right chances, say all the right things, and you still end up right back where you started. Happiness is not free, even though everyone says it is. Really, think about it. Something bad has to happen for you to realize how much you appreciate what you have now, to truly be happy. You won't know what the sunshine feels like unless you've been in the dark for a while. The people you love the most are the ones that end up hurting you the most. Life bites, and there are no guarantees, but somehow it always ends up giving you this great feeling when everything's said and done."
i remember seeing girls crying
in the bathroom every morning
about what they did at a party that weekend.
i never wanted to be that girl
//Taylor Swift//
"It's not about what happened in the past, or what you think might happen in the future. It's about the ride, for Christ's sake. There is no point in going through all this crap if you are not going to enjoy the ride, and you know what? When you least expect it, something great might come along. Something better than you even planned for"
"Once, years ago, I looked up by mistake and fell into your eyes.
I’m still falling. Sometimes, it feels like flying."
"Every second counts 'cause there's no second try
So live like you're never living twice
Don't take the free ride in your own life."
"I don't know if we each have a destiny,
or if we're all just floating around accidental-like on a breeze,
but I, I think maybe it's both.
Maybe both is happening at the same time."
- Forrest Gump
"Most people don't know who they are, that's why they lie. They're afraid someone else will figure it out before they do."
-One Tree Hill
i believe in sleeping in. I believe in giving 100% when you only have 80.
I believe in love, arguing, and jamming out by yourself in the car.
I believe in kisses on the forehead.
I believe in long kisses, smiling til your cheeks hurt,
and laughing until you cry.
I believe in being silly and crazy with your friends.
I believe in taking chances and making mistakes.
I believe in having someone tell you that you're beautiful.
I believe in swinging on swings and running in the rain.
I believe in miracles and random acts of kindness.
I believe in saying hello to anyone and everyone.
I believe in second chances and
I believe that everyone deserves one
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| And you taught me what this feels like. And then how it feels to
lose it. And you showed me who I wanted. And then who I wasn't.
And you ticked every box. And then drew a line. And you weren't
mine to begin with. And then not to end with. And you looked like
everything I wanted. And then became something I hated. And you
get thought of every day. And then not in a good way. And you let
me leave. And then wish I'd stayed. And you almost killed me.
But I didn't die.
So maybe you could walk with me awhile,
and maybe I could rest beneath your smile.
Everybody stumbles sometimes and needs a hand to hold,
cause it's a long trip alone
don't waste your youth growing up.
Try and expect nothing,
but be open for anything.
Don't look for happiness,
but don't settle for anything less.
If there's a hole in your heart,
you gotta pull it together.
It takes courage to start,
but now is better than never.
It takes a push and a shove,
somehow it's never enough.
And it's alarming how quickly we forget:
Nothing is bigger than love.
if you aren't just a little bit depressed,
then you aren't paying very much attention
to what's going on in the world.
-- Pete Wentz
In love, you can't see the bad side of someone.
That's the pathetic part of being in love.
That sometimes even the worst person in this world
can be the best person for your own belief.
you are the end product of time.
and time will always takes its toll.
never regret the price you pay
to become who you are.
Don't spend time beating on a wall
hoping to transform it into a door.
Beginnings are usually scary and endings are usually sad, but it's everything in between that makes it all worth living.
“The most damaging phrase in the language is: "It's always been done that way." - Grace Hopper
“one day this "fuck you" attitude is going to do more than push people away.”
“let's be honest, sometimes there is nothing harder in life than being happy for someone else.” - sex & the city
Don’t ever save anything for a special occasion. Being alive is a special occasion
When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness.
It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides.
And when it subsides, you have to make a decision.
You have to work out whether your roots have become so
entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part.
Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness,
it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day.
It is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every
part of your body. No… don’t blush. I am telling you some truths.
For that is just being in love; which any of us can convince ourselves we are.
Love itself is what is left over, when being in love has burned away.
This is the acceptance speech. The end of anger and denial.
I accept that you and I will never be the same again.
That while those days will live in my mind forever, they’re over.
I hate it. But I accept it. And I’m moving on now.
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| Maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the un-returned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope.
-He's just not that into you
But it’s so frustrating because I broke up with him cause I was sick of crying every day and fighting. I didn’t wanna cry anymore but now I’m crying because he’s not here to make me stop.
-Lauren Conrad; The Hills
It's taken me awhile, but I'm learning that letting go of the past is a good thing. It doesn't mean forgetting, it just means moving on. You can't enjoy the present when you're still stuck in the past.
This moment is so great, I would cheat on that other moment from before, marry this one, and raise a family of tiny little moments.
-Scrubs.
Their plan had been very simple: To stay together for the rest of their lives. A plan that anyone within their circle would agree was accomplishable. They were best friends, lovers, and soul mates, destined to be together, everyone thought. But as it happened, one day destiny greedily changed its mind.
-"P.S. I Love You"
In that moment, I felt my heart break. And I thought, “I can’t live without you. I don’t want to live without you,” and then it slowly crept into my mind that no matter how bad I wanted or needed you, it wouldn’t matter. Somehow, and very painfully I was sure, my life would continue. With or without you.
Before, my fear was being vulnerable. The ability of another human being to possibly tear apart your insides at any moment was enough to keep me running. He, however, made my insides come alive, my smile become more permanent, laughter more frequent. He took away my fear and gave me hope. But more importantly, for the first time in my life, instead of wanting to run away, he gave me a reason to stay.
The greatest irony of love. Loving the right person at the wrong time, having the wrong person when the time is right and finding out you love someone right after that person walks out of your life. And sometimes, you think you’re already over a person, but when you see them smile at you, you’ll suddenly realize that you’re just pretending to be over them just to ease the pain of knowing that they will never be yours again. For some, they think that letting go is one way of expressing how much they love that person. Some are afraid to see the one they love being held by someone else. Most relationships tend to fail not because the absence of love. Love is always present. It’s just that one was being love too much and the other was being loved too little. As we all know that the heart is the center of the body, but it beats on the left. Maybe that’s the reason why the heart is not always on the right. Most often we fall in love with the person we think we love, but to only discover that for them, we are just passing time while the one who truly loves us remains either a friend or a stranger. So here’s a piece of advice let go when you’re hurting too much, give up when love isn’t enough, and move on when things are not like before. For sure there is someone out there who will love you even more.
I’ve learned this past year. I’ve changed, I’ve grown. Maybe things do happen for a reason, maybe they don’t. but no matter what, they still happen. That’s what we need to remember. I learned to stop analyzing things, to just let them happen. And if I get hurt, or if something bad happens, then it happens. There’s nothing I can do to change that. I’ve learned to go with my gut, and that it’s okay to make mistakes because the ones that matter, won’t care. I’ve learned that love really is as great as they say it is. I’ve learned that your friends can save you from your worst enemy: yourself. And most importantly, I’ve learned that today is all we have.
. I’ve always followed my heart instead of my head. I’ve always jumped, always took that leap of faith into the unknown, having no idea of what the outcome of my actions would be. But now, now it’s so very clear. I need to stop following my heart. I just need to stop, before I do anything at all. I need to stop and think about it, about what I am about to do. I need to think about whether it is right or it is wrong. Because when you follow your heart, you lose track of what’s right and what’s wrong and it tears you apart.
There isn’t a day that goes by where I don’t, at some point, think of you. Or, some kind of memory we once shared. It’s like I look at a certain thing, hear a certain song or even eat a certain food, and suddenly I am reminded of you, the times we shared, the conversations we had, and the best friend you used to be. I know I ruined it and I’m sorry. I’m sorry because I miss you so much yet you don’t seem to at all. Because I still hesitate and the sound of your voice, even hearing your name, but you don’t even blink at the sound of mine. Because I’m trying my hardest to let thing go back to normal yet you don’t even bother to put in the effort to make things work. I’m sorry because once again, I’m crying over you while you’re probably having the time of your life with her.
We were never meant to be. We just happened.
You want to know what living life to the fullest is? It's waking up on Monday morning with no complaints. It's knowing that you always deserve to laugh.
Second chances do come your way. Like trains, they arrive and depart regularly. Recognizing the ones that matter is the trick.
Sometimes you just need to realize that you can't have it all, and you can't fix what you've done, you need to move on and try to be happy, even if it's the hardest thing you'll ever do.
Nobody trips over mountains. It is the small pebble that causes you to stumble. Pass all the pebbles in your path, and you will find you have crossed the mountain.
We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.
-Paulo Coelho
i thought i was going to forget you but I was wrong.
i thought i was getting over you but it's been a lie for so long.
i thought i'd be able to hate you but it's something I can't do.
no matter where i go or what i do, i'm still in love with you
i didn't just fall for you on my own.
you tripped me and watched as I fell.
then you stepped on my chest,
and just kept on walking
i remember that first day we met
the first time we hugged
and The first time you kissed me.
i remember the first time you told me
that you loved me. and i remember
the first time i knew, i wasn't ever getting over you.
i'd rather be a bitch than a hoe,
rather tell it like it is
than blow every boy i know.
rather be known for what i do..
not who i screw.
if anyone asks ill tell them we both just moved on,
when people all stare ill pretend i don't hear them talk.
whenever i see you ill swallow my pride and bite my tounge
pretend im okay with it all, act like there's nothing wrong.
is it over yet, can i open my eyes? is this as hard as it gets,
is this what it feels like to really cry?
if they ask ill just tell them we grew apart,
yeah what do i care if they believe me or not.
isn't it a shame every time you hear my name brought up in a casual conversation, you can't think straight? and isn't it sad you can't forget about what we had, take a look at her and do you like what you see, or do you secretly wish it was me? cause ill be there in the back of your mind from the day we met, till you were making me cry.. \ i believe that everything happens for a reason. people change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe less so eventually you learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
It's probably the wrong time to tell you this, but, well,
maybe its the perfect time. I realize how incredibly
confusing things are between us right now. I can't
even begin to explain our relationship. You probably
can't either, but I just want you to know that if you
ever need me, I'll always be here for you. All
you have to do is ask.
If you're getting pushed away, don't hold on
tighter. Letting go when you're getting pushed away
is the only way he will feel what it's like
without you, even though its the hardest thing
to do, do it for him.
I miss my friend.
The one my heart & soul confided in.
The one I felt safest with,
the one who knew what to say to make me laugh
again. To let the light back in.
So hi: This is me. A human being, in all my frailty.
laying myself out for you, that we might walk
through this beautiful, awful, strange thing we
call life, together.
-To Write Love on Her Arms
It hurts to watch the one you love go for someone else.
It hurts to sit thee waiting for it to end. but you know
whos going through the reall suffering? him. because
he's going to go through crappy relationship after
crappy relationship, just to finally realize you were
the one all that time, & he's giong to get hurt by all
them girls while you would've loved him endlessly, he's
the one who's going to suffer. so just wait, because one
day, he'll be back for you.
You ever wake up from a really good dream & try to get back to sleep?
Or you got the flu & you promise yourself
you will appreciate normal so much more,
if you can just get back to it?
Thats the way I feel.
I just want things to go back to the way they were.
-One Tree Hill
Every girl has that one boy that she'll never
get over. That one guy that makes you laugh
all the time. The one guy that gives you
butterflies just when someone mentions his
name. the one who remembers all the stupid
things you say and reminds you about it months from now.
that one who has his name written all over your heart. That one who you
comepare to everyone. That one you never get sick of
talking or hearing about. That one you cry over
and over about. That one that no one
can understand, "why him?" That one everyone thinks
you can do better than. That one you ask
why her not me? That one when
you first saw him, you knew you loved him.
I finally found it in me to forgive you for what
you've done. No, see I know you don't think you
did anything wrong, and that made it so much harder to forgive.
But you did, you walked away when I needed you most. I forgive you, but I'll
never forget the way you made me feel when you walked away.
I miss you,
& I don't know what to tell you.
I just want my best friend back.
I want someone who won't care that I hate wearing
shoes, that I'm incapable of sitting still, that I cant
grasp the concept of cleaning, & I
refuse to be ladylike. Someone who realizes that
half the decisions I make I usually regret, & I
have the right to overreact at any moment. I
want someone who konws how completely
insane I am, & he wouldn't want me any other way.
I remember the feeling, the electricity running
through my body. The adrenaline, the fireworks,
the peace, the happiness, the way it felt to be
infinite, & the day it all went away.
I know a lot of people know who he is, but I also know
there are not that many who got to see the side
of the guy that I did. And that guy, well, I'll
never forget him & I wouldn't change a thing about
it. Your heart needs to go through some bumps
like these in order to make it through. Besides,
no matter what he's done or not done, he had
the biggest impact on me this past year. And I
know no matter how many years go by, my
stomach will always do a little flip whenever I see that face.
The truth about girls:
We act like we're cold so you'll hold us.
gossip isn't a sin, its an art,
the word "bitch" doesn't mean much to us.
When we say we're fine, we're usually not.
Most of us fall in love way too easily.
We're never too old for sleepovers.
All of us have a mean side, some of us just don't show it.
We're confusing, & you'll never have us completely figured out.
Most of us like attention.
We all like to hear we're beautiful.
No matter how many times we say we don't care, we usually do.
We'll mess with you head.
If we say that nothings wrong, something usually is.
& just when you think you have us figured out,
something wil change & you'll be all wrong.
Don't worry about me, my hearts not
broken anymore. You should be worrying
about yourself. Because as far as I can see,
your still an asshole.
Never be afraid to try something new.
Remember, amateurs built the ark.
Professionals built the Titanic.
I'm a lover & a fighter. I get
angry easily, but I'm working on it.
I party, sleep, & think too much,
but I get my crap done. I have a
weakness for sweettalkers, but I'm
learning & enforcing my boundaries.
I don't let many people in, but once
they're in, they're in forever.
I'm strong & independant &
I've been broken, but never shattered.
He's the reason I'm messed up.
the reason I can't get myself into another
relationship, no matter how hard I try,
no matter how bad I want to, I'm scared.
I'm scared because I could never love
anyone the way I love him.
Don't feel stupid for missing him, even if he
treated you like crap. You still had happy memories,
& your always gonna miss them. Don't try to
replace him, cause you won't. Just get
through each day, & eventually it will get better.
Eventually someone will come into your life, &
whether or not you realize it, they are going to be
something special to you. So don't throw yourself
at every guy you see, trying to replace him, or
at least dull the memories, cause you're only
gonna make yourself see how hard he is to replace.
Someone better will eventually come along.
Ever since you left me its been like a bullet
through my heart. And I know I should move
on, but I dont know where to start.
The problem with guys is that they make you
believe they love you when they really don't.
The problem with girls is that they make you
believe they don't love you when they really do.
I decided that enough is enough. Since you obviously
don't care about me anymore, I'm going to move on.
Easier said than done, I suppose; because at
the end of the day, I'm staring out the window
with these tears on my cheeks.
Just look at what you've done to me.
They ignore each other
& look the other way.
but they both know
that it wasnt
supposed to end this way.
We dont talk anymore & I dont know why.
Its like you gave me wings, then said its illegal to fly.
& he's a complete idiot,
hes moved on,
hes got his eye on someone else,
shes still hoping for another try.
he always has to be right, wont accept anyone elses opinion.
he hates her laughing with other guys, thinks shes
flirting. he thinks hi isnt as important to her as her
friends, but he is. In a different way.
she loved spending time with him, and thought he liked
being with her. he lost her once and like a fool she took him back.
he didnt realize that although she
'flirted' with other guys,
said things she didnt mean,
ditched him for her best friends,
and laughed when she should have kept quiet,
she needed him in her life.
I'm fine. I mean, not that I'm over it,
but little by little its getting easier
to pretend its easier, which means easier
might be right around the corner.
This will be the first time in a week that I'll talk to
you and I cant speak. Its been 3 whole days since I've had
sleep because I dream of her lips on your cheek. I got
the point that I should leave you alone, but we both
know that I'm not that strong.
I should hate him for the way
that hes treating me, but I dont.
I wish I did. but maybe thats
what real love is. not hating someone
when you have every reason to.
&& one day, he'll realize that all his attempts to push
her away, were useless because he still loves her.
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i want somebody to sleep with me, and just sleep.
someone to cuddle up with during a movie on a couch.
stay up all night talking about nothing. get lost in the woods
together. challenge me, let me challenge him. talk about
dreams, and make dreams. have fights, the kind that only
really matter just as long as you're having them. someone
i can wrestle with, you know, play hard sometimes and
not worry about breaking a nail or an arm. a guy who will
bring me flowers once in a while, maybe a rock too or a
shell of some sort. something he saw that made him think
of me, made him think "this might make my girl smile" as
he smiles to himself. a guy who wants me, maybe even
needs me, just a little, enough to hold onto me with
everything he's got.
they say it's the little things in life that
really matter, but you're a big part of
me. and you matter the most.
you make tomorrow worth the wait
and yesterday worth remembering.
"a man who wants to make a relationship work will
move mountains to keep the woman he loves. if he's
not calling you to tell you he loves you and wants you
back, it should only be because he's showing up at
your new residence to do it in person...if he's not doing
any of that, he may love you, he may miss you, but
ultimately he's just not that into you. stop taking his
calls and let him know what it's like to live without you."
- He's Just Not That Into You
there is always one person you love who becomes that
definition. it usually happens retrospectively, but it happens
eventually. this is the person who unknowingly sets the
template for what you will always love about other people,
even if some of the loveable qualities are self-destructive
and unreasonable. the person who defines your understanding
of love is not inherently different than anyone else, and they're
often just the person you happen to meet the first time you
really, really want to love someone. but that person still
wins. they win, and you lose. because for the rest of your
life, they will control how you feel about everyone else.
you know what's the most terrifying thing about admitting
that you're in love? you're just naked. you put yourself in
harm's way and you lay down all your defenses. no clothes,
no weapons. nowhere to hide, completely vulnerable. the
only thing that makes it tolerable is to believe the other person
loves you back and you can trust them not to hurt you.
it's the kind of relationship where they have a secret
handshake, and she begs him to watch disney movies
with her, while he begs her to watch a scary movie
instead. it's where they laugh and joke all the time,
but they're serious when the time is to be serious.
it's where neither of them have to say "i love you"
because they know with all their hearts that they
love each other. it's where they can mess around
on her couch and then she'll laugh at him when he
tries not to look guilty in front of her dad. it's the
kind of love that everybody dreams of.
i can't explain this feeling for you, but i guess i can try.
it's like i've waited for this one thing my whole life, and
it's suddenly right in front of me. i know you sometimes
doubt how you feel for me, and sometimes i doubt how
i feel for you, but then there are times, stupid times, like
when we're posing for a picture, or i'm sitting in your car,
or when we're walking together and we brush against
each other, and i know without a question that you're
feeling the same way i am. and those moments, however
few or far between, make everything we go through
worth it. what can i say? somewhere in these past
few months, i've fallen in love.
there will come a time in your life when you become
absolutely infatuated with a single soul. for this person,
you'd do anything for and not think twice about it, but
when asked why...you have no answer. you'll try your
whole life to understand how a single person can affect
you as much as they do, but you'll never truly find out.
and no matter how badly it hurts or how badly you hate
it, you'll love this person for the rest of your life without
regret.
"almost every girl falls in love with the wrong man.
i suppose it's part of growing up."
- Natalie Wood
the brightest future will always be based on
a forgotten past; you can't go on well in life
until you let go of your past failures and
heartaches.
sometimes you have to test someone. not because you don't
trust them, but to see how much they'll sacrafice for you. and
sometimes you have to let them go, not because suddenly
stopped loving them, but to see if they love you enough to
come back.
the things about life that i've learned is that you're going to
get hurt. you're going to have emotional nights and cry
yourself to sleep for hours. you're going to suffer some
kind of heartbreak, some kind of loss. but you will also
have moments where you heal. those moments are the
best. you feel like you smile for the first time again. you
feel like you're alive. life just kinda restarts.
all your life you are told things you cannot do. all your life
they will say you're not good enough, or strong enough,
or talented enough. they will say you're the wrong height
or the wrong weight or the wrong type to play this or
achieve that. they will tell you no, a thousand times no,
until all the no's become meaningless. all your life they
will tell you no, quite firmly and very quickly. and you
will tell them: yes.
sometimes you feel everything and nothing all at once.
sometimes you'll find yourself smiling while missing someone
at the same time. at times you can absolutely love a person,
all the while wanting to hate them so badly. life comes without
guarantee's, except that smiling will brighten your face, laughing
will enhance your eyes, and falling in love will change your life.
a lot of us would like to move mountains,
but few of us are willing to practice on small hills.
i don’t pretend to know what love is for everyone,
but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing
all about someone, and still wanting to be with them
more than any other person, love is trusting them enough
to tell them everything about yourself, including the things
you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and
safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when
they walk into the room and smile at you.
you don't get to choose, you just fall in love and you
get this person who is all wrong and all right at the same
time. and you know you love them so much except
sometimes they drive you completely insane no one
can explain it. and the reason it's so confusing is
because it's love, but if love didn't have challenges,
what would be the point?
We came here together, most of us unprepared
we were all worried, we were all a little scared.
There were times we felt alone, times we felt sad.
But it took times like those to realize what we had.
I put on my nikes that layed on your bedroom floor,
had them laced up and headed to the door.
Flipped the hoodie over my head, & forgot everything you ever said.
Hey heart, what are you doing?
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance and you find out you still care for that person
All I ever wanted was for us to have a home and grow old together, but life never asked me what I wanted.
--Pearl Harbor
So now, alone or not, you've got a walk ahead. Thing to remember is if we're all alone, then we're all together in that too.
"Truth is, everybody's going to hurt you. You just gotta find the ones who are worth suffering for."
-Bob Marley
Why can't we get all the people together in the world that we really like and then just stay together? I guess that wouldn't work. Someone would leave. Someone always leaves and then we have to say good-bye. I hate good-byes. I know what I need. I need more hellos.
i need love. i need the thing that happens when your brain shuts off and your heart turns on.
here's to the shit we talk,
the boys we stalk,
the way we shop,
the laughs we cant stop.
the gossip we spill,
and the looks that could kill.
we'll stay together,
all through the years..
best friends forever
Trust is a fragile thing. Once earned, it affords us tremendous freedom. But once trust is lost, It can be impossible to recover. Of course the truth is, we never know who we can trust. Those we’re closest can betray us, and total strangers can come to our rescue. In the end, most people decide to trust only themselves. It really is the simplest way to keep from getting burned.
-Desperate Housewives
One night was all it took
to ruin everything that we had.
she has future plans and dreams at night.
when they tell her life is hard, she says,
"that's alright."
what do you do 'when you wake up and everything will be better,' except it's not. there's no worse feeling than when you wake up and feel okay for a minute. and then that sick feeling washes over you and you remember it's not okay.
just got so hurt .. really hurt.
& sometimes, when that happens,
something inside just shuts off.
It's like looking at all the students and wondering who's had their heart broken that day, and how they are able to cope with having three quizzes and a book report on top of that. Or wondering who did the heart breaking. And wondering why.
-The Perks of Being a Wallflower
Most days I feel lucky enough to fly with both feet on the ground..
What we know of other people is only
our memory of the moments during
which we knew them. They have changed
since then, and at every meeting,
we are meeting a stranger.
A lie can travel halfway around the world,
while the truth is still putting on its shoes
it's a long road
To your door
When you don't love me anymore
And with my eyes closed
I can still see
A time back when I meant to you
Everything that you still mean to me
you say girls are confusing? nice try. girls are the easiest to understand. we want love. we want trust. we want everything most guys lack. we want someone to change for us. we want them to accept the fact that sometimes we forget to shave. we want someone who doesn't put drugs or alcohol before us. we want back rubs. we want you to give us flowers. we want you to hold our hand. we want you to be able to have sex with us for the beauty, not just because you want it. we all just want our own prince charming.
Sometimes you just can't tell someone how you feel. Not because you don't trust them, and you think they'll think you're weird, but because you can never really find the right words to make them understand.
sometime's a person plays hard to get to know that the other persons feelings are real. - One Tree Hill
We are not the same person this year as last - nor are those we love. It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person.
"Someone once told me about brain chemistry. When you're feeling good, you can't ever imagine feeling bad again. And when you're feeling bad, it's impossible to imagine a time when you won't be circling a drain."
Live your life
so the preacher doesn't have to lie at your funeral.
Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the trouble makers, the round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently; They aren't fond of rules. You can quote them, disagree with them. The only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things. While some see them as the crazy ones, I see genius because the people who think they're crazy enough to change the world are the ones that do.
I cannot go to the ocean. I cannot drive the streets at night. I cannot wake up in the morning without you on my mind. So you're gone and I'm haunted, and I bet you are just fine. Did I make it that easy to walk right in and out of my life?
I was talking to myself about you the other day. We were wondering what became of you.
-Bambi.
You give me more courage than anyone I have ever known. I'd skydive off a plane if I knew you'd be there beside me.
If you end up with a boring, miserable life because you listened to your mom, your dad, your teacher, your priest, or some guy on television telling you how to do your shit, then you deserve it.
You can't just turn your heart off like a faucet; you have to go to the sources and dry it out, drop by drop.
After a while, you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul. And you learn that love doesn't mean leaving and company doesn't mean security. And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises. And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open, with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child. And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrows ground is too uncertain for plans. After a while, you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much, so plant your own garden and decorate your own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. And you learn that you really can endure. That you really are strong and you really do have worth, and you learn and you learn. With every goodbye, you learn.
You make my dreams come true and I love all the small things that you do, like blink 182. You make my days go better and the way that the sun is shining through, boy, it's all because of you.
Like a hot shower in the middle of winter or an unexpected letter, you're every kind of smile to me.
The truth is, I'm scared of you. I've never felt so drawn to another person, so much that it's impossible to keep my distance.
Rock-bottom is good solid ground, and a dead-end street is just a place to turn around.
Me plus you, I'll take that number. Multiply your smiles, minus the drama. Give me a fraction of your heart. I'll solve your problems. Now put that together. We make up a perfect equation.
Today is a perfect day for a perfect day.
Who better to share your dreams with than the person you dream about?
Sometimes I wish I was the weather. You'd bring me up in conversation forever. And when it'd rain, I'd be the talk of the day.
You can always tell when two people are best friends because they're always havijng way more fun than it makes sense for them to be having.
So let's say that theoretically I really like him and theoretically even though it sounds moronically cliche and overused, he gives me butterflies. And just for kicks, lets add that, all in theory of course, he may be one of the most wonderful people I have ever met. And hypothetically, my heart beats ten times faster when I see him.
Sometimes you just need to cry and be sad. You need to break down and be torn apart. You need to learn now to pick yourself up and put yourself back together. Sometimes, the only way to be happy is to give into sadness first, cause without sadness, there's no happiness, you would never learn to smile.
Every man needs a woman when his life is a mess
because the queen protects the king,
just like in a game of chess.
There are things we don't want to happen,
but have to accept, things we don't want to
know, but have to learn, and people we don't
want to lose, but have to let go.
It's something about the way you shine in the light.
You glow. Bright blue and pink in your cheeks. I
just wanted you to know, you're not just another
fish in the sea to me.
Do you realize what you are to me? What you're
always going to be? You are the love of my life,
everyone else will always be second best. There
will never be another you.
When you're down, I may not be able to pick you back up, but I promise I'll be willing to lay down right next to you.
Letting go doesn't mean giving up...it means moving on. It's one of the hardest things a person can do. Starting at birth, we grasp onto anything we can get our hands on, and hold on as if we will cease to exist when we let go. We feel that letting go is giving up, quitting, and that as well all know is cowardly. But as we grow older we are forced to change our way of thinking. We are forced to realize that letting go means accepting things that cannot be. It means maturing and moving on, no matter how hard you have to fight yourself to do so.
"This is my "depressed stance". When you're depressed, it makes alot of difference how you stand. The worst thing you can do is straighten up and hold your head high because then you'll start to feel better. If you're going to get any joy out of being depressed, you've got to stand like this." -Charlie Brown
There are many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year's course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word 'happy' would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.
When you fall in love...I guess nobody ever does mean to fall in love. But it happens, and love brands itself on your brain. It's like a new street appearing overnight in the city you've lived in your whole life. The street is one way - you can't turn around and get off it - and it curves up ahead so that you can only see far enough to know that you are veering into the unknown.
"I don't believe in encouraging all that uh, that self esteem crap. You want to win, earn it. That's why you're so good at what you do now, because you know that nobody is going to hand you anything."
"I think you're beautiful, but I wouldn't fuck you because when we were done, I wouldn't want you to feel fucked. I would try to make love to you, and I would probably be clumsy and awkward, but when it was over, I would want you to feel loved."
"Where were you last night?"
--"That's so long ago, I don't remember."
"Will I see you tonight?"
--"I never make plans that far ahead."
"There's someone you're meant to spend the rest of your life with. You just have to be open enough to see it. That's all."
"This is the type of situation where people say, "Oh my God"."
--"Pretend you're a person and say it."
"Oh my God."
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